Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Old friends made new

I'm really glad that Ben & Camille McIntyre moved to Toowoomba not long after I did. Already knowing them a little, we've been able to check out churches together and visit each other in our homes. Ben and I even joined up with the same indoor soccer team. This way he's meeting my cousins and a few other good Toowoomba lads, and I'm getting to build a stronger firendship with him away from the pressures of all our existing friends back home.

I gotta catch up with the Rolands more too. Lucy and Dave are far more reclusive than Ben and Camille, but it would be good if the 6 of us could hang out more. Lucy and Sarah and Camille could be good mates. Would be good for all of them.

Lord help me build relationships that honor you and serve others...Amen.

Monday, November 22, 2010

Kids Names I really like!

Male:
  • Hezekiah James Rudge
  • Japheth Peter Rudge


Female:
  • Sharon Joellen Rudge

The idea is to have a Biblical first name, the more unique the better, and then to have a second name that honors someone(s) significant to us.

more to come...


How we got engaged, in her words

Asked: an engagement story.


"Life is a funny old thing. Two years ago if you asked me what my possibilities were about getting married I would of said that it would happen when it would happen. I never planned my wedding or wondered what it would be like to married. I didn't know much about being in a relationship. If you asked me what I thought about boundaries in a boy-girl relationship I would smile and say that they are a good idea, but internally I wouldn't really know what they were. Yet here I am. Two years later and I honestly think (and feel) that I am blessed to be in a relationship with a Godly young man, and together we wish to please God.

To rewind, Daniel and I began our relationship in the beginning of 2009, but that is another story. Since then most of our relationship has been long distance, meeting in person about once every three months. This was really hard, but I did grow so much stronger too! We learnt the importance of communication ( <- my advice to couples: Learn how to communicate). Over that time we still did many things together, spent many Saturday mornings skyping, learning about each other, talking etc.

This year Daniel was able to move down Toowoomba to work with a University group called Student Life. And since he has moved down many people have believed it would be only a matter of time before he would ask me to marry him.

About three weeks ago Daniel asked me what weekends I had free, for he wamted us to go a day trip to the beach somewhere. I needed to get some driving hours done and Daniel loves the beach (then again, so do I). We decided to go on Sunday, 14th of Nov. It was the day after a friends wedding and the only day free before I went on my trip to Byron.

At 7am we left Toowoomba and started to head to Rainbow beach. Driving, I wondered if Daniel would ask me up there..... We got there at 11:30 and went a swim in the surf. We lay on the hot sands to dry. Maybe he'll ask soon... After enough sun, we went to the infamous sand dunes that tower 100's of feet above the sea below.

We found a shady spot in the forest, edging the sides of the giant dune. There we had lunch and a doze. This is perfect I thought It is so peaceful out here, so relaxing and natural. Maybe he'll ask out here."

We talked of many things, from expectations to how many kids we wanted, to silly little things that later turn into in-jokes. Soon the afternoon grew old, how time could fun, and how at ease this man made me feel (something rare, believe me). We decided to head to the car. We had a long drive ahead. Our plan was to see the sun set, but we wouldn't have time if we wanted to get to home at a reasonable hour. We decided to stay over at Mum and Dad's place in Crows Nest, and had told them we would get there by 9pm-10pm.

At five we started home, getting light meals on the way, and because to the overcast sky we missed the sunset completely. Daniel suggested to watch the sunrise the next day to make up for it. I aggreed. Sunrises were more our thing any way. Time crawled on the way home. Though we talked of many things there were a few long silences were I got to think. I thought of how blessed I was, then I remembered that of my own exceptions for that day. We were on the way home, and Daniel still hadn't asked me... On the day we all thought he would. . . It was then I realised that I was silly to think like this. I reminded myself that he would ask when he was ready, and I would do far better not worry. So I didn't. I felt at peace once more.

We got to my parents about 10. Dan and I agreed that we would get up at 4am and find a place to watch the sunrise then I went to bed. It had been a long day.

The next morning I woke to the ringing of my phone alarm in my sisters inky black cool room. After some time I got up and dressed and found Daniel waiting. Together we drove around looking for a place to watch the sun rise. Daniel then thought why not go the falls? At first I though that is silly, it's in a forested area, but then he reminded me of how a forest changes hue and be come golden at sunrise. I knew he was right so of we went. We got there as first light started to break. We walked and climbed a little until we found the optimal spot. Nature calls Daniel and he leaves me with the cameras to take photos. I watch and snap as the sun changes colour. As the forest started to wake so did my mind.



the sun shining though the valley by the crows nest falls

Dan comes back and we talk and he asks me about my roots and where do I feel that I belong. We sit timelessly as the leaves turned gold then green. Time did continue to move on, though I barely remember how much so. Daniel took the cameras and shoved them into his pockets. Time to go he said, but before we do lets do a trust exercise. He holds my hands, ok I reply. he asked me to close my eyes and listen to his voice. He led me around the rocks back the way we had come. He sits me down and I think that we are about to go down a big drop... but we don't. He held me tight. Open your eyes. Sarah, the reason I asked you about your roots before is because I would like you to uproot and join me. Start a family together. Sarah, will you be my wife, will you marry me?

I could not believe it.... even now thinking back I start to flood with emotion. I look in front of me an array of objects. The ring box and bible catch my eye the most. I didn't expected it. Not at all. Because my mind was still waking up, or just because I choose to wait patiently I don't know. But I feel so blessed to be asked the way I was.


!!!!! :D
Thank you Daniel"

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Got the Ring!!


At last, I've finished paying off and taken delivery of my engagement ring for Sarah!! I'm really excited!! :)

Saturday, October 30, 2010

Finished!!!

I paid off the whole bridal set for my girl!!!! It's away getting resized at the moment. Will be sent down here to Toowoomba very soon, and then it's just a matter of picking my moment!! I'm pretty excited!

Oh yeah, I moved to Toowoomba btw. And I got a new car too! I should tell that story soon. :)

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

What is being a man really about?

It's a question I struggle with a lot. I finally found someone else who wrote exactly what I think and feel, so I dont have to!

What does it mean to be a man?

Agreed Bill!! Unreserevedly!

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Actual Trek

Well it's been a week now since Ben McIntyre and I went trekking for our tour of the volcanic plugs, so I guess I should write something up as a follow up. Hmm, so here is the proposed route we were gonna take. Thanks to Ben and Ergon Energy for our cloud-free map. :)




So yeah we struck out and climbed the first plug, Mt Jim Crow without any real difficulty. Slow going because Ben's wife Camille came along. But that was ok. She headed home in the car when we got back to the bottom, and we set off along the cattle fields for the next plug we meant to climb.

Took us about two hours to reach it, including a stop for lunch, then about another hour and a half to get up, because it was absolutely covered in heavy vines and rainforesty growth on the near side. We were pretty buggered by the time we hit the top, so took rather a long break. Ben tried to get some map readings on his phone but the signal was too low.

We had to use the ropes a bit to get down the other side of this second plug, and we dropped directly into a jungle of overgrown lantanna. It took us the better part of two hours and a lot of scratches and scrapes before we finally got clear of it. We crossed old Byfield road at 1600 hours, only an hour from when we'd meant to be on top of the next plug and setting up camp. It looked to be a good 2klm to the base of the next plug, so we pushed for it as hard as we could, but by the time we hit the bush at the bottom and got a good look at the sheer cliffs we decided it would be crowning stupidity to attempt the climb at night or in failing light. So we set up camp at the bottom.

Did the usual thing you do around a fire...talked heaps, cooked food, ate it, toasted some marshmallows, talked some more, messaged our girls. Finally got to sleep sometime after 2100 hours, still undecided about whether to climb the third plug the next morning. There wasnt a breath of wind and the night birds (curlews mostly) were squawking away.

We'd collected a lot of firewood, but Ben couldn't get comfortable to sleep so just kept feeding the fire. I dozed off pretty easy, and woke feeling cold a fair bit later. Fire had burned down to coals, it was dead silent and still all around us, which struck me as odd at the time. Being a bush kid I should have known, but wasnt alert, too tired and groggy with sleep.

Anyways, I woke Ben and we collected a heap more firewood. The ground was pretty cold by now, so we got some branches together and made some crude beds from leaves, just to keep our backs off the ground. Then we built the fire up to a roaring big blazer and got comfy. Just ready to drop off when this strange wind came out of nowhere. Of course all the trees around us starting swaying and creaking, effectively keeping us awake. Gum trees can make some pretty weird noises in the wind at night! This went on for about half an hour then the wind passed. It was still deathly still all around us.

Then the rain came. Not heavy, just spits and spots, enough falling in our faces to keep us awake and make us very grumpy. That only lasted about ten minutes though, and it was all quiet again when I heart this twig crack away on our left in the bush. I put it down to a bandicoot, but the silence was making me uneasy, so I got a torch in one hand and my hunting knife in the other, and wriggled a bit closer to the fire. Ben's head was up...listening.

Then there was another twig crack away on our right, my side of the fire. I decided to not let my mind play tricks on me, it was probably only a scrub turkey or wallaby or something. I glanced across the fire and saw Ben reach for his knife. That unnerved me cos he's a bush kid too and he was feeling the heavy silence too.

Not thirty seconds later, just when I'd convinced myself my mind was running rampant with me, twigs started snapping and bush rustling all around us. Ben was up on his feet and gazing into the night, then he shouted "Dingos!!" He said later that he looked around for me as he said it and I was already up with my knife drawn and crouched for a fight. I dont remember it, just that I was up and gazing into the night, where we could see a whole lot of dog bodies moving around the edge of our ring of firelight. We reckoned there must have been about ten or fifteen of them, so we started yelling and grabbed some burning sticks, hoping to frighten them off.

It worked, they bolted into the night, causing a racket that made us realise these were no true dingoes, who are skilled at silent movement in the bush. This was a pack of feral dogs, the most dangerous kind, since they dont have the same fear of man that true wild animals do. Anyway, we heard them pelting through the bush, then counted eight of them as they ran over a dam wall a little distance away. They stood out stark against the night sky as they went over the wall, as everything else was flat for miles around.

We were just settling down when we heard another quiet crack off to our right. I was still holding my burning stick and knife, so I charged the bush in that direction. Ben thought I was crazy, but I could see fairly well two more dogs trying to sneak away. They bolted when I charged though. So that made at least ten.

We were pretty jumpy afterwards and got no more sleep all night, just packed up the camp and ate the rest of our food so we could travel light the next day. We decided not to attempt any more climbs, too dangerous with a pack like that around. So at first light of dawn we were up and making good time across the cattle fields. We were heading in more or less the same direction the dogs had run off the night before, and we found a freshly killed Hereford carcass against one fence. We stood there looking at the gnawed bones, spilt entrails, torn skin, and thanked God for keeping us awake last night. That was last night's dinner for those dogs, and it could easily have been us if they found us napping.

Anyway, after that we made really good time, stopping only to take a photo of the sunrise, which was gorgeous. We then found a power line and decided to follow it to the road. Ben messaged his wife who came out to pick us up from the road that runs along Hedlow Ck. Got home around 8am Sunday morning, after a pit stop at Maccas to recharge the energy levels, then hit the beds. I slept all day!

Ben plotted our actual route at work the next day, mostly from his memory of the lay of the land and the landmarks we'd used, and this is the result.



"Here's where we ended up going bro… not a bad crack with no sleep. That morning after we actually walked 4.8kms to hedlow crk… much further than I thought!" Ben's comment to me in the email.